Guest Post by Sonja Shrada Devi from WildSacredFeminine
I know when i was growing up I thought sexiness belonged to ‘the cool girls’, the girls with good looks and special ‘sexual skills’. I felt awkward and totally disconnected from my body and sexual pleasure. Thankfully that’s all changed. I have been on a profound journey to make friends with my body, I have gotten super intimate with my intimate terrain. And I have embraced what I call ‘the new sexy’ as a full time job.
I haven’t met a woman who is not interested in developing her orgasms. Orgasm can be just a few seconds peak experience - what I call a "genital sneeze" - and this is what most women who orgasm experience. (Including me, for many years...)
Every year we start off with new resolutions and most of the time we don’t get to complete them all… So this year, how about we start off with an intention. I invite you to join me in the intention to go inward. It’s time we use more of our vulva, our Yoni Power; our true inner power. And shine this power outward, showing up in the world as we are meant to: radiant and magical.
I recently learnt the term "medibation", which is a blend of meditation and masturbation (AKA self pleasure). My coach/somatic healer recently prescribed me medibation for my homework as a way of re-connecting with myself. And sure enough, I went home...and didn't do it.
How often do you sit down with your partner and discuss the dynamic of your relationship? As individuals we grow, shift and change over time, which means our relationship does too, and abandoning it too long could cause the relationship to stagnate, deteriorate and eventually atrophy (like a muscle that’s not being used). Just like you would sit down with your boss and discuss your role, duties, income and how stimulated and satisfied you’re feeling in your job, similarly we should do the same in our most intimate relationship.
As mentioned in my previous blog, I shared about the immense power of Yoni Massage and why I think that every couple and single should study and practice it. In short: it’s the number one tool for liberating the female orgasm. And it’s a massage technique that goes really deep, and works on healing, pleasure and awakening higher consciousness.
Today I want to share something with you… Something that holds incredible power for transformation for couples. Something that is capable of unleashing deep, ecstatic, female orgasms. Something that helps couples in connecting deeper and deeper with each other. I’m talking about Yoni Massage.
This month I will have lived in Perth for 2 years. And in that 2 years, I haven't “gone out” once… until last night. Last night was the first time I've been out to a nightclub, and it reminded me of WHY I don’t go out anymore.