Christmas is about coming together, re-uniting with relatives, connecting to your familial lineage, bonding together over a meal, being generous with each other and celebrating the year that was.
But Christmas is also whatever you make it!
Sex can take up a huge chunk of our energy -The thought of sex, the fantasy, the desire, the lead up, the build up, the chase, the choosing (the swiping), the courting, the outfit, the lipstick, the gym work outs, the act of sex, the orgasm, the ejaculation, the 'after-care', the follow up, the safety, the vulnerability - the whole process can consume a lot of our time, energy and emotion. ...if we let it.
Guest Post by Madison Rosenberger
I was raised Catholic and attended Catholic school from age 5-18, there were a lot of “rules” I learned in Catholic school about sex that never seemed right to me. I never understood the regulations on sex and lovemaking. For example, why couldn’t we have sex before marriage? The point of making love is to be intimate with one another, and I didn’t quite understand what marriage had to do with it. However there was one thing I learned in Catholic school that stuck with me, and not necessarily for the reason you might think...
Guest post by Jacqueline Hellyer
Taking a break together is always a good thing to do, helping you relax and rejuvenate and hopefully have some quality sexy time away from the stresses of everyday life. So why would you add a couples retreat to your time away? What are the benefits to you of going to one of my LoveLife Couples Retreats? Well, where do I start?! Feeling the love and connection in the group and seeing the couples blossom is an experience that’s hard to put into words. But I’ll try...
Guest Post by Sonja Shrada Devi from WildSacredFeminine
I know when i was growing up I thought sexiness belonged to ‘the cool girls’, the girls with good looks and special ‘sexual skills’. I felt awkward and totally disconnected from my body and sexual pleasure. Thankfully that’s all changed. I have been on a profound journey to make friends with my body, I have gotten super intimate with my intimate terrain. And I have embraced what I call ‘the new sexy’ as a full time job.
I recently learnt the term "medibation", which is a blend of meditation and masturbation (AKA self pleasure). My coach/somatic healer recently prescribed me medibation for my homework as a way of re-connecting with myself. And sure enough, I went home...and didn't do it.
How often do you sit down with your partner and discuss the dynamic of your relationship? As individuals we grow, shift and change over time, which means our relationship does too, and abandoning it too long could cause the relationship to stagnate, deteriorate and eventually atrophy (like a muscle that’s not being used). Just like you would sit down with your boss and discuss your role, duties, income and how stimulated and satisfied you’re feeling in your job, similarly we should do the same in our most intimate relationship.
As mentioned in my previous blog, I shared about the immense power of Yoni Massage and why I think that every couple and single should study and practice it. In short: it’s the number one tool for liberating the female orgasm. And it’s a massage technique that goes really deep, and works on healing, pleasure and awakening higher consciousness.
Today I want to share something with you… Something that holds incredible power for transformation for couples. Something that is capable of unleashing deep, ecstatic, female orgasms. Something that helps couples in connecting deeper and deeper with each other. I’m talking about Yoni Massage.
This month I will have lived in Perth for 2 years. And in that 2 years, I haven't “gone out” once… until last night. Last night was the first time I've been out to a nightclub, and it reminded me of WHY I don’t go out anymore.