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Rosie Rees


Today I want to share something with you…

Something that holds incredible power for transformation for couples.

Something that is capable of unleashing deep, ecstatic, female orgasms.

Something that helps couples in connecting deeper and deeper with each other.

I’m talking about Yoni Massage.

As you might know already Yoni (pronounced yo-nee) is a Sanskrit word and refers to a woman’s vagina.

So yep, it’s vaginal massage if you wish. But with a twist. That twist is that this massage practice is not intended to work only on the physical body, but deeply touches the emotional and energetic bodies of the practitioners.

That makes Yoni Massage a practice for healing, pleasure and awakening consciousness.

Why am I sharing this with you? Because I know you’re open minded and curious about sexuality. And eager to try something new!

My personal experience

I first heard about yoni massage a few years ago and it peaked my interest – for obvious reasons.

I decided to ask an acquaintance and local Perth Tantra practitioner to hold a session for me so I could experience first hand what it’s like and also so my partner could learn (all men must know how to give a Yoni Massage!). It was a beautiful session, and I was surprised how the yoni massage actually wasn’t the highlight for me – and it was only a short segment at the end of the full body massage – just like any other body part! I found the energetic de-amouring the most healing and enjoyable (she didn’t even have her hands on me and my body was responding to her energy!). In fact, my yoni felt numb and I couldn’t feel much sensation at all, which is really common for a lot of women! Hence why it’s beneficial to use yoni eggs.

The second yoni massage I received was very different. I was asked to be a live yoni massage demonstration for a friend and Tantra practitioner in front of 25 workshop participants. I said yes straight away, despite fearing the ultimate vulnerability of sharing such an intimate practice in front of men and women. { On a side note, some of the “strangers” I met that evening are now some of my best friends! }.

During this session, I cried, laughed, howled, retracted, released, opened and fell to pieces and came back together again. At the end of the process, I laid there naked, completely bare, unequivocally shedded and vulnerable.  I requested the group to come in close to me and some of them squeezed my hands and cried with me. I then asked them all to chant with me some deep bellowing OMs. It was an extremely powerful experience. And that night, my partner and I had the best sex (probably to date!). It opened me up on every, single level!

My friend Mariah Freya specializes in teaching Yoni Massage, and has allowed me to share her warming up techniques with you. You can give these a try together with your lover. You might already get a glimpse of what the magic behind Yoni Massage is about!!

Awakening the senses

Start with a small meditation together. Look at each other deeply in the eyes, and try to see beyond our masks of daily life. Once you feel attuned with your partner at a loving level (as a result of the meditation), you can start.

The receiver lies down on a soft mattress covered with the sarong she was already wearing, closes her eyes and surrenders to the situation.

As the giver, know that your arms are the extension of your heart; stay connected with your heart and breathe and try to check now and then to keep in touch with the receiver’s heart and breath.

Start slowly, awakening the senses through the sarong. After some time you can slide the sarong over her body down to her feet. That gives a magical, heavenly sensation and is a smooth slide into nudity. The skin is our biggest sensory organ and wants to be touched, massaged, caressed etc…

Use feathers, fur, silk, your fingertips, your palms and your nails to produce different sensations. Play with intensity, sometimes softer but also sometimes stronger. You can also use aroma therapy to stimulate the olfactory organs.

Whatever you think fits the situation. Even some raw chocolate bliss balls might be a nice stimulator for the beginning.

Abundance of Oil and Massage

Once the senses are awakened you can start with some more tension releasing massage. In this part you can incorporate Shiatsu, Thai massage, etc. whatever you know works best for relaxation.

If you don’t know any massage styles simply be intuitive and work around the neck, legs and feet, arms and back. Oil is essential here and you don’t want to skimp on it.

A breast massage after you have worked through most of the body areas will open up more pleasure and relaxation. You can work with your thumb around the breast moving towards the nipples, massaging any knots out. You can make a never-ending movement around both breasts with one hand. Or you can squeeze the breast towards the nipple with both hands. Just be creative and watch out for the receiver’s feedback.yoni massage

Heart-Yoni Connection

The breast massage is a great knock-knock on the temple gate, because the vagina is strongly connected with the breasts.

Once you feel the receiver is ready, work your way down the belly around the hips and inner thighs. Many women are very stiff around the pubic bone. So try to soften her up until it’s literally a ‘jelly belly’.

Before you touch her vagina, ask if you are allowed to. Then make a cap-form with your left hand and let it close the entrance of the vagina. You can push slightly to increase the pressure. Place your right hand on the receiver’s heart. Imagine you are bringing the Heart and the Yoni together. Always remember that your arms and hands are the extension of your heart; let them act in the name of your heart.

Breathe together.

From here you can start going into a full-on Yoni Massage, or gently fade into a nice love-making session.

Are you curious about learning more about Yoni Massage? And about learning the specific massage techniques, and why and how it works on those multiple levels (healing, pleasure and consciousness)?

Then I have good news. My friend Mariah Freya has agreed to offer a discount for her best-selling Yoni Massage course for my dear readers. I will reach out to you in a few days and let you know once we have set it all up!

Until then,

Love Rosie x

Yoni Massage

Rosie Rees is an online entrepreneur, nude body image revolutionist, relationship coach and sex-positive blogger. Rosie is founder of Women's Nude Yoga - a 3 hour workshop helping empower, liberate and free women of their body image issues. In 2013 Rosie created Yoni Pleasure Palace online store sharing yoni eggs & crystal pleasure wands inspiring women to self love through self pleasure. You can catch Rosie touring the country getting naked on her yoga mat, inspiring women to love their bodies and blogging candidly about all things love, sex, orgasms, spirituality and relationships.

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