Remember sex isn’t just a physical thing, yet so often we just think with our vagina and our penis.
When we have intercourse with someone it’s an emotional connection; a spiritual connection; an energetic connection.
It’s essentially a swapping of energies.
You’re mixing your DNA, genes, juices and chromosomes in the most intimate & sensual forms and expressions of affection.
It’s the most scientific chemical reaction you can get.
When you give that part of yourself to someone, you’re giving a part of your soul.
Too often we give away this sacred act too easily, too willingly, too freely.
And it hurts. It breaks us down. Whether we are aware of it or not, it causes cracks in our heart; cracks in our spirit – that is, if we give it away to the wrong person. This can in turn cause cracks in our body in the form of weight gain (protection), cancer (burying problems) and overall dis-ease.
So the next time you go to have sex with someone, look into your soul and theirs and try to gauge whether you want to give a part of your light to that person.
So, ask yourself:
Are you on the same page?
Is there mutual respect?
Do have a natural chemistry?
Could it lead to something longer term?
Does it feel right?
When you look deep into their eyes, does your soul connect with theirs?
If you are unsure about any of these things, then don’t do it.
If there is doubt, then that’s your divine higher self sending you some red flags, alarm bells and sirens – WARNING YOU.
Remember if it’s not a HELL YEAH, it’s a no.
And remember giving yourself to someone, whether you’re male or female, is a big freaken deal.
Don’t play it down to be a minuscule, tiny hey-ho kinda thing.
And you deserve to make love with someone who loves and deserves you for who you are.
Love rosie x