Today I want to cover a fun, wet, and wild topic — female ejaculation. Perhaps you have experienced this before or have never even heard of it. Either way, I would love to help you learn more about female ejaculation.
What Is Female Ejaculation?
Female ejaculation is a physiological phenomenon typically associated with orgasm. It is considered involuntary the expulsion of fluid from a woman around the point of orgasm.
Sometimes known as gushing or squirting, female ejaculation is also known as ‘kala’ in tantra, indicating its connection to the cycles of the Moon. One of my favourite words for it is ‘amrita’, which translates to ‘divine nectar’.
Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From?
Female ejaculation is believed to come from three different places:
- The urethra (the hole where urine comes out)
- The vaginal walls
- Directly from the uterus, through the cervix
Is It Pee?
Many women ask me if female ejaculation is pee, but it is completely different from urination. The confusion is understandable, though, as it may come out of the urethra (the same hole urine comes out of).
Here are some basic differences between female ejaculation and urine, but if you really want to get in-depth on the science of it, check out this article.
First of all, female ejaculation smells different from urine. In fact, it smells wonderful. It is said to taste good too! Some tantric followers even swear by its healing properties and rub it on their skin.
The amount of liquid varies from woman to woman and even from day to day. Sometimes it may be a few drops, while other times it may feel and look as if you wet the bed!
These large amounts are particularly amazing and mystical. Doctors can’t even give a full explanation as to why these abundant amounts happen. As if we needed another reason to remind us of how magical women are!
There is no doubt that female ejaculation is a truly mystical experience. If you pay attention, you may notice that you squirt easier on some days of the month than others since it is believed to be connected to the cycles of the Moon.
Can Any Woman Ejaculate?
Female ejaculation is a sacred, empowering experience that I believe any woman can learn to experience.
Tips to Experience Female Ejaculation
First and foremost, it is important to be aroused, relaxed, and have a clear mind.
Yoni eggs are a great training tool for helping the vaginal muscles learn to ejaculate.
One of the most common ways to experience female ejaculation is through firm, prolonged stimulation of the urethral sponge around the G spot, an area located on the front wall (toward your belly button, not your back) about 6 to 10 cm inside the vagina.
Stimulation of the A spot can also lead to female ejaculation. This area, also on the frontal wall, is located a little higher, just in front of the cervix.
Rhythmical, thrusting stimulation is usually the best way to achieve female ejaculation. You can even use wands specifically designed for G-spot stimulation (or a kit, as pictured below). If you have a trusted partner who is happy to help you explore, fingers can also be a wonderful way to explore and stimulate these areas.
As with anything, the key is to avoid putting any pressure on yourself or your partner. This is all about having fun, practicing, exploring, learning, and truly connecting with your yoni. Leave the judgment and pressure behind and just enjoy yourself!
Is It Messy?
Does the thought of squirting all over the bed make you worry about the mess? No worries. Get creative! I know many women that simply lay a towel beneath their pelvis or have some fun in the bathtub!
The psychological fear of seeming as if they wet themselves can actually hold women back from squirting. So don’t let this obstacle stop you from pleasure. Lay down that towel and have some fun!
Scientists have even speculated that female ejaculation may help flush harmful bacteria out of the urethra.
Are You Ready To Explore It for Yourself?
I hope this article gets you excited to see if you can enjoy this magical experience for yourself. Remember, the entire goal is to have fun exploring and learning more about yourself. Be careful to silence any inner thoughts that try to self-sabotage your road to pleasure.
Be kind to yourself, have fun, keep learning, and you will be on your way to an absolutely blissed out experience.
Have you ever experienced female ejaculation before? What was it like for you? Do you have any other tips? I always love hearing from you!
If you would like to learn more about female ejaculation, my private Facebook group is a great place to ask ANY questions. Nothing is off-topic in this sacred space. Or contact me if you are feeling uncertain as to how to start your journey and I would be honoured to help guide you to this mystical experience.
Wishing you light, health, and self-love!